Closets and Cabinets

I have seen many closets, cabinets, entertainment centers in my days. The most wonderful thing about these units is that they have a door and no one knows what's behind the door until you open it, that is only you know. I remember myself back in the days when I did not have specific home for my stuff, hence I stress the word "home". I wouldn't really let people help me if you know what I mean. I was embarrassed, and would always say know I got it, sit. Meanwhile I was tired, and very stressed...whenever I had gatherings in my home. If some of my guests would insist on "helping" me I would panic and I would actually start to clean/organize while I was hosting a party... No one taught me to be organized, I just figured it out. All I knew was I was tired of living my life feeling anxious, overwhelmed, frustrated and I began to hate entertaining...it wasn't worth it to me...I started creating these spaces for my stuff and read some books, and little by little, slowly but surely I got there...now, I'm asking for help in the kitchen and I love entertaining.. I absolutely enjoy it...